Chapter 6
The Rule of Benedict January 24
The "spirit of silence" that Benedict instructs the monastic to cultivate is of a particular character. Benedict's silence is chosen for the sake of spiritual formation in oneself and in one's sister or brother. The spirit of silence is kind and generous, not stingy or hostile. In other words, it's safe. Safe silence, held in common, is a great gift, and it's one that we, as an order and as a community experience together regularly.
The distinction between safe silence and the silence that communicates anger, resentment, disapproval, hostility, etc., is so important. And it can be safe but still feel uncomfortable for those of us who are still getting used to being okay not filling the space.
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