August 19

Chapter 63 pt. 2

The Rule of St. Benedict August 19

The practice of the Canon Communities of St. Benedict is for canons and novices to take on the title of sister or brother when they take their vows.  As initially difficult and potentially awkward as this might seem, it brings the reality of the community very close to home, as our Father Benedict indicates in this passage.  We take on a formal identity in our relationships with each other when we enter into religious life, and it is appropriate for our names to reflect it.

This passage also has much to offer us as we live out our Benedictine lives in a parish setting.  The way in which we think about, talk about/to, and treat the elders and the juniors in our parish is an important matter.  I have been guilty of nursing grudges and speaking unkindly about some in the older generation at St. Augustine's.  I hear from this passage that it is mine to lay aside my own sense of entitlement and/or rightness in the face of the inevitable conflicts of interest that will arise in a multi-generational community.  Let us practice deference and gracious concern for the best interest of every person in our parish, old and young, rich and poor, grumpy and cheerful.

Br. Chad 2012